How Thrifting Stimulates Your Style Sense
Have you been thrifting lately? Do you usually go with a set goal in mind?
I’ve tried to thrift with a set goal in mind. It never seems to work. I become frustrated and suddenly something that used to be joyful gives me a headache.
I’ve learned to surrender myself to the joy of discovery when it comes to thrifting.
Thrifting is like yoga for your style. It teaches you to move and stretch your fashion brain in ways you never thought possible.
Where else would I find a full purple midi skirt in leather? With an icy blue jacket as a topper?

I never would have considered either of these pieces in a retail store. The cost of purchasing a new leather skirt would be well beyond my budget, let alone a purple midi leather skirt.
The velvet jacket is by Façonnable, a high end brand from France that I adored but couldn’t afford when I lived there. I might have let out a little squeal when I spotted it. The quality is amazing. As soon as I slipped it on I knew it was coming home with me.

I don’t normally wear safari style jackets and this one is missing the belt but that wasn’t enough to deter me. It fit too well and the colour was too rich and helloooooo! velvet! My obsession with velvet is out of control. I now own six velvet jackets.
I may have a problem.

I love how shopping secondhand pushes my style limits.
When I discover quality items like this that deserve to be purchased I have to be willing to imagine myself differently. A purple leather skirt and blue velvet safari jacket wasn’t on any “want” list or filling any holes in my wardrobe. I had to open my mind to the possibilities that lay within each of those pieces and be willing to see myself differently to incorporate them into my life and wardrobe.

Imagining yourself differently is a unique skill that ensures you don’t become stale, repetitive or stuck in a style rut.
If you are truly gifted like Melanie then you will not only see beyond yourself, but also beyond how that item of clothing is normally worn or used. She takes men’s sweaters and wraps them around a model as a scarf. A man’s tie becomes a woman’s belt.
Being willing to see everything with new eyes and no preconceived ideas will free your fashion style and open your creative heart.
My goal when dressing myself it to look artsy, feminine, interesting, colourful and unique. There are many different ways of going about that and thanks to shopping secondhand I am discovering even more.
How do you stimulate your style sense?
You might also enjoy How To Train Your Thrifting Brain
or some great Tips On How To Choose A Winter Coat
I’m Short And I’m Wearing A Midi Skirt – Again!
Yep…I know I’ve said before I never thought I could wear a midi skirt.
Then came this leather midi bought while thrifting…

And this vintage number for summer…

And now, what I am dubbing the perfect midi skirt for winter…
1970’s vintage wool chevron.

With pockets!
We all know pockets make everything better.
I bought this skirt in a very small vintage shop on Queen West. When I entered the store I stepped into the Twilight Zone. Racks of clothing were too jammed to easily access items. Vintage clothes were stacked in piles like old newspapers filling every corner. The room was poorly lit, and dirty. Most of the items looked like they had been in the cramped retail space for thirty years or more. I half expected to see an arm or a leg sticking out from one of the heaps.
The “fitting room” (if you can call it that) a sheet hung from string, had a mirror which reflected through a gaping hole back to the unsettlingly eccentric store owner, whom I will politely describe as one of the psycho characters from Twin Peaks on a good day.
Vintage shopping can be quite the adventure. You never know what you’ll discover or who you’ll be forced to interact with meet .
I bought the 1970’s sunglasses I’m wearing from the same shop, a last-second impulse buy. I’ve been watching Fargo season 2 and have become slightly obsessed with Kirsten Dunst’s costumes on the show.


Look how the pockets are perfectly aligned with the fabric. You can’t even tell they are there.
The handbag was another happy find on the same day from a much larger antique shop where I didn’t expect to find clothes.
When vintage or thrifting you always need to keep an open mind. Treasures can be hidden in the most unexpected places.

I will admit when I initially bought this skirt I had intentions of taking it up. My husband convinced me otherwise.
I’m happy I left it long. It feels very feminine and is wonderfully comfortable and warm.

For reference sake I’m 5’4″, or the top end of the petite scale.
Since I bought the skirt it has become my favourite. I am finding that it goes with everything I own.
One of the benefits of buying vintage or thrift is that you can experiment with items that you never would have considered in a retail store.
What item of clothing do you think you can’t wear? Have you ever considered challenging your belief?
Linking up with Hat Attack, What I Wore, I Will Wear What I Like Throw Back Thursdays
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