These last couple weeks have been traumatic.
It is astounding just how quickly life can slide right off the rails and one has to face unexpected changes and cope with them. This recent crisis is a reminder to keep my face turned towards the sunshine and be thankful for all I have in this very moment because in an instant it can all be taken away.
Gratitude Found
Last week I took some time to recharge my batteries and thank my lucky stars that life is finally back to normal.
A Million Years Ago
These photos were taken when I was still trying to figure out what to wear to my friend meet-up last month in Vancouver which seems like a million years ago now! I certainly feel like I’ve aged twenty years in the last two weeks.
I didn’t end up taking this fab vintage 1960s maxi dress on the trip with me.
But I still wanted to share it with you.
It mimics my current mood, out of the darkness came sunshine and flowers.
Tomorrow Is Promised To No One
I am so grateful to have made it through the difficulty to the other side with my life still intact.
Don’t forget to tell those you love how much you cherish them.
Tomorrow is promised to no one. Make the most of your day today.
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“Tomorrow is promised to no one. Make the most of your day today.”
Wise words from a wise woman. Sorry you’ve had to tramp through hell. You are such a good analyst, though, and you use these horrible times to learn, shift perspective. I’d still pay a billion bucks for you to not have gone through it though!!
xo
Patti
http://notdeadyetstyle.com
I am so very grateful for you Patti. Your offer to come up to Toronto on such short notice truly touched my heart.
Oh Suzanne, I’m sorry to hear that you’ve had such a tough time. I hope that there are many good things to come, to balance out the universe a little. Thinking of you xx
Thanks for your kind thoughts Porcelina.
When life gives you lemons you squeeze every bit of juice out, put in the fridge and make lemon drop cocktails the the next day. . . . Everything looks & feels better the day after and you look Fantastic in this dress. Yes. . tomorrow is not promised, so Seize the day my Dear. . .
Too true. Thanks Neti : )
You’re a strong woman with a masterfully creative mind. Sometimes that creativity can bring on needless anxiety with the negative imaginings we conjure up… Been there.
I’m so happy for your improved outlook Suzanne!
Honestly, what happened two weeks ago I couldn’t have imagined even if I tried Jude. It was straight out of some bad movie. Maybe I should be writing a screenplay…
Anyhow…I’m happy to have it behind me now.
What a great relief to know the nightmare has come to an end. After everything you’ve been through recently, it almost pains me to point out how great those yellow boots are. I’m hesitant to even mention the reflexive drool I had to wipe off my chin. But sunshine. They are the color of sunshine. How apropos for this celebration of life. And how very very thankful I am that things are brighter today.
Hugs and Love,
Sherry
Thanks Sherry : ) Your thoughts and well wishes throughout the ordeal truly helped. Robert and I both thank you.
“Last week I took some time to recharge my batteries and thank my lucky stars that life is finally back to normal.”
So happy to hear this Suzanne!
Being thankful every morning for what you have is a great way to start the day. The 5 minute journal app can be a good tool for this.
In addition I also now coach myself for any other feelings I have that don’t serve me.
And yes a good reminder to tell those special people around you that you cherish them…..
I agree that gratitude makes our hearts happy. One never knows just how much we have till we lose it.
Thinking of you. I’m so glad to hear that things are getting better.
That dress is optimism personified.
xxx
Thanks Vix : )
🙂 Dear Suzanne,
I have no idea what terrible things happened in your life recently, but I hope you’ll get over it. The sooner the better. I wish you the strength you need in rough times and the the faith in yourself that you can get through tough times, if you give yourself the necessary time for it.
Your dress and look are beautiful!
Take care and a big hug from Vienna,
Claudia xo
I totally agree that time is the best healer Claudia.
wise words and wise attitude too!, it’s lovely to know that your life is back to normal and lovely to see you in a fab floral dress with yellow boots, looking like a sunny spring day!
Totally agree on enjoying every day, every moment!!
besos
YES!
enjoying ever moment of life and love is my mantra.
i´m glad you made it back into the sunshine!
2 years ago my life turned upsidedown – your description what you felt sounds familiar. but to be honest – i still work on my recovery – it takes much longer then i ever expected……
the maxi dress print is just beautiful – and it suits you so well!
xxxxx
I do believe this has left some emotional scars that will haunt me the rest of my life.
from my own experience – yes – it will. the more important is to cherish the good stuff…..
Hello my friend,
I’m so bad keeping up on social media these days but for some reason was pulled towards you. What on earth happened to you? Whatever is was, I’m truly grateful to hear it’s behind you and you’re now looking upwards.
Please know, I’m still around and think of you often. I, too, can be there anytime you need help.
Thank you for your kind words Trina.
I’m so sorry to hear that your life has been upended recently. As I don’t know any details, all I can do is hope things have settled and you are on a positive upswing. It is true that your life can “turn on a dime” and all we have is this moment, right now. Every once in a while we need to be reminded of that.
It’s been a tough few months around here and a big reminder not to take the average day for granted. Thanks Shelley.
I am terrible with words, Suzanne. Especially with events like you describe. But I am a great hugger, and even though we are far away, here is a huge hug with all the love behind it.
XOOX
Jodie
Thank you for your kindness Jodie : )
We’re at the age when the ice becomes thin. And can crack at any moment. I’m sorry for the emotional trauma you and Robert just experienced.
The only way to deal with this phase of life, as you’re learning, is to be conscious and grateful for every day. My experience this Winter shocked me more than expected and hammered this home for me.
That is the perfect description Ally, thin ice.
No doubt your winter was tough.
I sometimes wonder if these bumps along the way are a gentle push so that we are more prepared when real aging sets in.
So sorry to hear you’ve been going through another rough patch, Suzanne, but I’m admiring the way you are dealing with it all. Your positivity is exemplary. Sending you a huge, virtual hug over from Belgium xxx
Thanks for the hug Ann : )
Oh my dear Suzanne. I am so sad to hear that you have been through something traumatic. You are a terrific “lifter upper” yourself and you have always made me feel better when I was slogging through the mud of life. I am sending so much love and hugs and wishing you sunshine and floral maxi dresses and a big fancy piece of cake. Love you.
I’ll take that fancy piece of cake Connie : ). Thanks!
I hope your life and health are doing well.
Very true! I try and life day by day, as I used to think I had to plan out things. I am glad things have settled for you and are back to normal. I know things can take a different turn. I never expected to have symptoms of EDS when I turned 40 and had to change things in my life.
I can so relate how to be grateful for what we have, people we are closest too. I appreciate more and more as I get older. That dress is sooooo awesome on you and the print is straight out of a garden, love it!
jess xx
http://www.elegantlydressedandstylish.com
You are always such an inspiration Jess.
Sorry to hear things have not been good and I’m glad you are out the other side.
I love your 1960s maxi dress and yellow footwear and if this outfit is a reflection of how you’re feeling now more power to you! You are looking wonderful.
xxxx
Thanks Vronni : )
You’ve put together this post and I think, Suzanne, you are sensitive and resilient, an excellent combination. I’m so relieved that you have come through this hell to the other side. You are right, there are no guarantees; we need to embrace what we have. Clothes don’t count in a crisis either, but as you demonstrate here, they certainly bring sunshine into our lives when we are on an even keel. Here’s to more sunshine on our faces!! Whew!!! xoxo
I think that resilience is a learned trait. We train ourselves to keep putting one foot in front of the other because we have no other choice.
It is very true that I hadn’t thought about clothes once during that two week period. Some normalcy is a gift.
Oh dear Suzanne, I’m so sorry. I really hope that everything will be as,, normal,, soon for you. You’ve got the right attitude. Kisses and hugs from the Netherlands.
Thanks Nancy : )
I’m so glad to hear you survived and came out smiling – like a sunflower. Having a positive outlook is priceless – I think it gets us through so many things. And that dress is just gorgeous on you and those boots……
Ruth
http://www.VogueFauxReal.com
Well… yes, in every life there are terrible things happening. Glad you got out the sunny side.
And the dress with boots is ever so nice.
Greetje
Yes the uncertainty of tomorrow is quite true and relevant to everyone. That said, I’m very sorry for your recent crisis. I am glad that you seem better now. But perspective is everything and gratitude does help.
I also adore this fabulous dress and those sunny yellow booties.
Stay well!
❤️
Elle